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		<title>By: Noreen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Noreen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 06:22:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have no problem with the doll but the strap on nursing bra thing is a little wierd as are the eyelashes on the doll</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no problem with the doll but the strap on nursing bra thing is a little wierd as are the eyelashes on the doll</p>
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		<title>By: Mary</title>
		<link>http://www.thingamababy.com/baby/2009/08/breastfeeding-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-32007</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 04:35:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m mixed about the doll itself.  Honestly, a little girl (or boy) emulating their mother can do so with a plain doll just fine.  The electronics are unnecessary and so is the halter top.  All the extras sometimes take away from what the imagination is already capable of.  

But in the overall scheme of things, I think a breastfeeding doll has its merits because it promotes something natural and loving.  Something that deserves to be recognized.  

My husband at first was a bit freaked out by it.  I then explained to him about children naturally emulating their parents - such as when my son put a breast pump to his chest when I was still nursing my daughter.  He then agreed that it may not be that bad of an idea.  

Both of us would prefer to let our children use their imaginations instead, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m mixed about the doll itself.  Honestly, a little girl (or boy) emulating their mother can do so with a plain doll just fine.  The electronics are unnecessary and so is the halter top.  All the extras sometimes take away from what the imagination is already capable of.  </p>
<p>But in the overall scheme of things, I think a breastfeeding doll has its merits because it promotes something natural and loving.  Something that deserves to be recognized.  </p>
<p>My husband at first was a bit freaked out by it.  I then explained to him about children naturally emulating their parents &#8211; such as when my son put a breast pump to his chest when I was still nursing my daughter.  He then agreed that it may not be that bad of an idea.  </p>
<p>Both of us would prefer to let our children use their imaginations instead, though.</p>
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		<title>By: dayna</title>
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		<dc:creator>dayna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 22:07:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am surprised someone never thought of actually creating this idea sooner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am surprised someone never thought of actually creating this idea sooner.</p>
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		<title>By: Genie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Genie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 20:35:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A friend of mine has a PHD in animal psychology something or nother... anyways, she was working at a major zoo where they had a few baboons.  One of the baboons had just had a baby and was feeding the baby - by nursing.  The zoo got so many complaints about the nursing mom that they actually had staff meetings and even considered taking the animals off of display!  They finally decided that while disturbing to some people, a nursing baboon was as natural as it comes and that people who find it upsetting really needed to be educated a bit.  This example just shows how far the anti-nursing thing goes for Americans and why they get even more upset at humans nursing and little girls copying their mothers... I&#039;m glad that there is a doll like this and after all the too doo over it - may one day buy it for my little girl.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A friend of mine has a PHD in animal psychology something or nother&#8230; anyways, she was working at a major zoo where they had a few baboons.  One of the baboons had just had a baby and was feeding the baby &#8211; by nursing.  The zoo got so many complaints about the nursing mom that they actually had staff meetings and even considered taking the animals off of display!  They finally decided that while disturbing to some people, a nursing baboon was as natural as it comes and that people who find it upsetting really needed to be educated a bit.  This example just shows how far the anti-nursing thing goes for Americans and why they get even more upset at humans nursing and little girls copying their mothers&#8230; I&#8217;m glad that there is a doll like this and after all the too doo over it &#8211; may one day buy it for my little girl.</p>
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		<title>By: My Boaz's Ruth</title>
		<link>http://www.thingamababy.com/baby/2009/08/breastfeeding-2.html/comment-page-1#comment-31929</link>
		<dc:creator>My Boaz's Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 12:50:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m all for breastfeeding, and it doesn&#039;t bother me when folk breastfeed modestly in public.  (I&#039;ve seen a couple of cases where the person seems to be making a point of being as &quot;In your face&quot; as possible when breastfeeding and yeah, that bothered me. But they were TRYING to bother people. 

But this doll still bothered me.  I don&#039;t mind my kids &quot;breastfeeding&quot; their dolls. But I mind the halter top over the shirt with fake nipples that might draw the eye of folk who I don&#039;t want looking at my kids in that way.  But then, I wouldn&#039;t let my kids get shirts that had eyes in those places or whatever either, for the same reason.

As for why bottlefeeding is not a problem -- bottlefeeding does not draw attention to the little girl&#039;s chest the way that top does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m all for breastfeeding, and it doesn&#8217;t bother me when folk breastfeed modestly in public.  (I&#8217;ve seen a couple of cases where the person seems to be making a point of being as &#8220;In your face&#8221; as possible when breastfeeding and yeah, that bothered me. But they were TRYING to bother people. </p>
<p>But this doll still bothered me.  I don&#8217;t mind my kids &#8220;breastfeeding&#8221; their dolls. But I mind the halter top over the shirt with fake nipples that might draw the eye of folk who I don&#8217;t want looking at my kids in that way.  But then, I wouldn&#8217;t let my kids get shirts that had eyes in those places or whatever either, for the same reason.</p>
<p>As for why bottlefeeding is not a problem &#8212; bottlefeeding does not draw attention to the little girl&#8217;s chest the way that top does.</p>
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		<title>By: Summer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Summer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 12:30:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was surfing the web last week and noticed articles on it - and they almost seemed to mimic yours.  My first thought was - AJ posted that first no fair!  I guess the good thing is it got your blog some national attention (or at least hopefully).  

But its amazing how many people have totally different opinions because they grew up differently.

Now I&#039;m not a huge fan of the doll, but to each is own.  I&#039;m also not Obama&#039;s #1 fan, (there is good and bad), but I definitely DON&#039;T think he should be blamed for the manufacturing of a doll from Spain that wasn&#039;t manufactured here!  Does Obama even know Spanish?!  Just kidding it seemed to fit with the absurd comments.  Ridiculous!

Great job AJ on being the first to blog on this product!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was surfing the web last week and noticed articles on it &#8211; and they almost seemed to mimic yours.  My first thought was &#8211; AJ posted that first no fair!  I guess the good thing is it got your blog some national attention (or at least hopefully).  </p>
<p>But its amazing how many people have totally different opinions because they grew up differently.</p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m not a huge fan of the doll, but to each is own.  I&#8217;m also not Obama&#8217;s #1 fan, (there is good and bad), but I definitely DON&#8217;T think he should be blamed for the manufacturing of a doll from Spain that wasn&#8217;t manufactured here!  Does Obama even know Spanish?!  Just kidding it seemed to fit with the absurd comments.  Ridiculous!</p>
<p>Great job AJ on being the first to blog on this product!</p>
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		<title>By: Emily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 04:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband recently saw a news article about this doll.  I believe he saw it on the Fox News you linked to in this article.  Their article was very negative.  At first I wasn&#039;t sure what to think about a breastfeeding doll... I breastfed both of my girls and my oldest breastfed all of her dolls while I was nursing her younger sister, and that just seems very natural for me to see a young child trying to nurse their dolls.  When I first saw the article I thought the the halter top fit like a bra, and you lift the flowers to expose the little girl&#039;s chest beneath.  (The first paragraph of the Fox article states &quot;The halter top has daisies that cover the little girls’ nipples and come undone just as easily as the flaps of a nursing bra would.&quot;)  That&#039;s what I had a problem with.  But then I realized that&#039;s not at all how it&#039;s intended, and that it just fits over the little girls&#039; shirt.  My husband is very supportive of this kind of doll, and after giving it some thought, so am I.  Breastfeeding is completely natural, and why not give our little girls dolls they can pretend to breast feed?  My youngest daughter has been wanting an 18&quot; doll lately, (fortunately she doesn&#039;t know about the name brand ones, she wants one from Target),  but when she saw this video she said she&#039;d rather have this doll.  I had to disappoint my poor little girl and tell her they aren&#039;t being sold in the States.  :-)  In any case, I think these dolls are a great idea.  There&#039;s nothing sexual about it.  I am more offended by dolls that always come with bottles, as that is just not natural.  *lol*  Anyway, I am one of those who found this site from a google search on bebe gloton.  And after reading through several of your posts, I must say I&#039;m hooked!  I&#039;ll definitely be checking back regularly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband recently saw a news article about this doll.  I believe he saw it on the Fox News you linked to in this article.  Their article was very negative.  At first I wasn&#8217;t sure what to think about a breastfeeding doll&#8230; I breastfed both of my girls and my oldest breastfed all of her dolls while I was nursing her younger sister, and that just seems very natural for me to see a young child trying to nurse their dolls.  When I first saw the article I thought the the halter top fit like a bra, and you lift the flowers to expose the little girl&#8217;s chest beneath.  (The first paragraph of the Fox article states &#8220;The halter top has daisies that cover the little girls’ nipples and come undone just as easily as the flaps of a nursing bra would.&#8221;)  That&#8217;s what I had a problem with.  But then I realized that&#8217;s not at all how it&#8217;s intended, and that it just fits over the little girls&#8217; shirt.  My husband is very supportive of this kind of doll, and after giving it some thought, so am I.  Breastfeeding is completely natural, and why not give our little girls dolls they can pretend to breast feed?  My youngest daughter has been wanting an 18&#8243; doll lately, (fortunately she doesn&#8217;t know about the name brand ones, she wants one from Target),  but when she saw this video she said she&#8217;d rather have this doll.  I had to disappoint my poor little girl and tell her they aren&#8217;t being sold in the States.  :-)  In any case, I think these dolls are a great idea.  There&#8217;s nothing sexual about it.  I am more offended by dolls that always come with bottles, as that is just not natural.  *lol*  Anyway, I am one of those who found this site from a google search on bebe gloton.  And after reading through several of your posts, I must say I&#8217;m hooked!  I&#8217;ll definitely be checking back regularly.</p>
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		<title>By: Miss X</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miss X</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 03:28:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#4 really made me laugh out loud!

I have to admit I was a bit disturbed by the video.  And I&#039;m all for mothers breastfeeding wherever/whenever necessary.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#4 really made me laugh out loud!</p>
<p>I have to admit I was a bit disturbed by the video.  And I&#8217;m all for mothers breastfeeding wherever/whenever necessary.</p>
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		<title>By: F.</title>
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		<dc:creator>F.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 00:57:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to work in a law firm that specialized in immigration and it wasn&#039;t unusual for a Latina client to bring her baby and breast feed. 

New staff&#039;s reactions always suprised me. I couldn&#039;t count the times I heard at lunch time something like, &quot;...and then the client WHIPPED her TIT out and stuck it right in the baby&#039;s mouth. Then the baby was like SLURPING on it. I couldn&#039;t concentrate at all.&quot;

These weren&#039;t kids. They were adults, and usually well educated ones. Older women while not so vocal, often expressed discomfort over what I believe was their perception of &#039;immodesty&#039;.

It was kind of amusing, sad and scary all at once (the reactions, not the breastfeeding). I don&#039;t know how to fully account for what seemed to be exaggerated responses, but I think for many of them it was the first time in their adult lives seeing a breast outside of Playboy, the internet or the bedroom.

So yes, I agree that Americans have a long, looong way to go. Maybe another generation?

BTW, the video was adorable and AJ&#039;s daughter nursing the Costco receipt was hilarious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to work in a law firm that specialized in immigration and it wasn&#8217;t unusual for a Latina client to bring her baby and breast feed. </p>
<p>New staff&#8217;s reactions always suprised me. I couldn&#8217;t count the times I heard at lunch time something like, &#8220;&#8230;and then the client WHIPPED her TIT out and stuck it right in the baby&#8217;s mouth. Then the baby was like SLURPING on it. I couldn&#8217;t concentrate at all.&#8221;</p>
<p>These weren&#8217;t kids. They were adults, and usually well educated ones. Older women while not so vocal, often expressed discomfort over what I believe was their perception of &#8216;immodesty&#8217;.</p>
<p>It was kind of amusing, sad and scary all at once (the reactions, not the breastfeeding). I don&#8217;t know how to fully account for what seemed to be exaggerated responses, but I think for many of them it was the first time in their adult lives seeing a breast outside of Playboy, the internet or the bedroom.</p>
<p>So yes, I agree that Americans have a long, looong way to go. Maybe another generation?</p>
<p>BTW, the video was adorable and AJ&#8217;s daughter nursing the Costco receipt was hilarious.</p>
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		<title>By: Shannon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shannon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 23:36:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry F., I did overgeneralize. I am a breastfeeding mother and know many, many people who see breastfeeding as perfectly natural, and not gross or shameful (myself included).

Reading through all the comments on the original post though, I was angered to see how many people see breasts as strictly sexual objects, and object to publicizing breastfeeding.  The general American opinion seems be that breastfeeding should be done in private, whereas in many other countries, it is acceptable to breastfeed your child whenever and wherever s/he is hungry.

I&#039;m glad that the message is getting out more and more that breastfeeding is healthy and natural, but it seems to me that there is still a long way to go in educating the American public.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry F., I did overgeneralize. I am a breastfeeding mother and know many, many people who see breastfeeding as perfectly natural, and not gross or shameful (myself included).</p>
<p>Reading through all the comments on the original post though, I was angered to see how many people see breasts as strictly sexual objects, and object to publicizing breastfeeding.  The general American opinion seems be that breastfeeding should be done in private, whereas in many other countries, it is acceptable to breastfeed your child whenever and wherever s/he is hungry.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad that the message is getting out more and more that breastfeeding is healthy and natural, but it seems to me that there is still a long way to go in educating the American public.</p>
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