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	<title>Comments on: Attachment Parenting: Baby Wearing vs. Car Seat Lugging vs. Stroller Pushing</title>
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		<title>By: Dallas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dallas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 06:49:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When my child was born, I had a broken wrist, with a cast up over my elbow, and my thumb stuck as such an angle as to be unusable.

My child allow would NOT tolerate a sling, wrap, front-pack, or other similar products.  I know this because I spent a LOT of money trying to find something that worked for both of us.  I probably tried at least 8 different kinds of carriers (besides the carseat).  

So, I carried her in her carseat at times.  Something like this would have made it easier, and I would have felt better and more stable.  Considering I had to lug her to and from my doctor&#039;s appointments every week for over 5 months, I could have used this product.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When my child was born, I had a broken wrist, with a cast up over my elbow, and my thumb stuck as such an angle as to be unusable.</p>
<p>My child allow would NOT tolerate a sling, wrap, front-pack, or other similar products.  I know this because I spent a LOT of money trying to find something that worked for both of us.  I probably tried at least 8 different kinds of carriers (besides the carseat).  </p>
<p>So, I carried her in her carseat at times.  Something like this would have made it easier, and I would have felt better and more stable.  Considering I had to lug her to and from my doctor&#8217;s appointments every week for over 5 months, I could have used this product.</p>
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		<title>By: anjii</title>
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		<dc:creator>anjii</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 18:20:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Elizabeth. I&#039;m a babywearer also, (my 29 month old still spends plenty of time in pouch slings and back carriers), but there were definitely times when the carseat was the better choice, like getting in/out for only a few minutes, eating at a restaurant (try doing that without spilling food on your sleeping baby, lol), and Costco shopping, where lifting a bulky, heavy box would be impossible without squishing the baby. It&#039;s all about particular scenarios, not a black or white, all or nothing thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Elizabeth. I&#8217;m a babywearer also, (my 29 month old still spends plenty of time in pouch slings and back carriers), but there were definitely times when the carseat was the better choice, like getting in/out for only a few minutes, eating at a restaurant (try doing that without spilling food on your sleeping baby, lol), and Costco shopping, where lifting a bulky, heavy box would be impossible without squishing the baby. It&#8217;s all about particular scenarios, not a black or white, all or nothing thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth W.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elizabeth W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 22:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just like any other parenting choice, there is a time and a place when one is the best and there is a time and a place when the other is the best.  People who draw a hardcore line in the sand and say things are ridiculous or awful (with the exception of things like beating your child with a stick with razor blades on the end and whatnot) are generally being short-sighted and self-centered or else just plain ignorant.

Like so many others have said, especially when you have more than one child to care for, slings are not always the best answer.  The school drop off/pick up has been mentioned and I would like to second that and say that I do three of these a day and to disturb my baby for them would be just plain unnecessary and wouldn&#039;t benefit anyone.  

I could list a bunch more times when easily removable carseats are better for mom, baby, and the whole family but i&#039;ll spare you, you get the idea.  There are also plenty of times when leaving the carseat in the car and using a sling or wrap is the best thing to do.

Personally, I don&#039;t think i&#039;d use the carseat hanger thing enough to warrant buying one, but i&#039;m open-minded enough to know that somewhere out there there is a parent who&#039;s sanity would benefit from just such a contraption and far be it from me to judge that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just like any other parenting choice, there is a time and a place when one is the best and there is a time and a place when the other is the best.  People who draw a hardcore line in the sand and say things are ridiculous or awful (with the exception of things like beating your child with a stick with razor blades on the end and whatnot) are generally being short-sighted and self-centered or else just plain ignorant.</p>
<p>Like so many others have said, especially when you have more than one child to care for, slings are not always the best answer.  The school drop off/pick up has been mentioned and I would like to second that and say that I do three of these a day and to disturb my baby for them would be just plain unnecessary and wouldn&#8217;t benefit anyone.  </p>
<p>I could list a bunch more times when easily removable carseats are better for mom, baby, and the whole family but i&#8217;ll spare you, you get the idea.  There are also plenty of times when leaving the carseat in the car and using a sling or wrap is the best thing to do.</p>
<p>Personally, I don&#8217;t think i&#8217;d use the carseat hanger thing enough to warrant buying one, but i&#8217;m open-minded enough to know that somewhere out there there is a parent who&#8217;s sanity would benefit from just such a contraption and far be it from me to judge that.</p>
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		<title>By: Diana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 02:28:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I tend to think that with a contraption that is not beneficial to the baby or the baby-parent relationship, inconvenient is good.  Let&#039;s not make it any easier to use!

That said, I do not have experience with babies in really cold climates or many other specific parenting situations and I appreciate parents that are weighing all the options and making the best decision they can.

I have, however, worn babies, toddlers, and preschoolers while pregnant (but not all at once!) and can not imagine wearing a baby in a carseat while pregnant!  I also have worn more than one baby/kid at a time and am sure this is also easier and more comfortable than wearing one baby and wearing the other in a carseat!

Slings and wraps have been lifesavers with twins or multiples for many parents.  They encourage breastfeeding and bonding and have all the benefits mentioned in the blog post.  One could interpret the studies as stating that spending time in the carseat results in babies that cry more, learn less, are less organized, take longer to be humanized, and are stupider.  

So, yeah, let&#039;s leave it inconvenient!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tend to think that with a contraption that is not beneficial to the baby or the baby-parent relationship, inconvenient is good.  Let&#8217;s not make it any easier to use!</p>
<p>That said, I do not have experience with babies in really cold climates or many other specific parenting situations and I appreciate parents that are weighing all the options and making the best decision they can.</p>
<p>I have, however, worn babies, toddlers, and preschoolers while pregnant (but not all at once!) and can not imagine wearing a baby in a carseat while pregnant!  I also have worn more than one baby/kid at a time and am sure this is also easier and more comfortable than wearing one baby and wearing the other in a carseat!</p>
<p>Slings and wraps have been lifesavers with twins or multiples for many parents.  They encourage breastfeeding and bonding and have all the benefits mentioned in the blog post.  One could interpret the studies as stating that spending time in the carseat results in babies that cry more, learn less, are less organized, take longer to be humanized, and are stupider.  </p>
<p>So, yeah, let&#8217;s leave it inconvenient!</p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth Yeung</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elizabeth Yeung</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 09:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Who says you can&#039;t breastfeed when your baby is in a car seat? You just sit next to her and lean in, with a light scarf covering the view so passersby don&#039;t get a peep show. It doesn&#039;t work as well since my daughter graduated to a forward-facing seat, but was a lifesaver on our extensive travels when she was in her portable rear-facing infant seat. (Yes, a bit uncomfortable for mom, but better than a crying baby!)&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I was a sling-only mom for my daughter&#039;s first two months, which was fine for little walks, but awful for shopping - I desperately needed some maternity bras, nursing tops, etc - but it&#039;s very hard to try things on when your baby is in a sling and there&#039;s nowhere in the changing room to put her! Eating out and going to the gym was a challenge, too. When we finally got a car seat, it  was fantastic - baby could nap in her seat on the floor between us, and I could eat my soup without worrying about spilling it on her. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Even better was when we got a stroller that we could pop the car seat in - now I could drive to a store, try on clothes, and go back without waking her! Finally, I didn&#039;t have to wear my maternity clothes!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I still keep a simple pouch sling folded up small in my diaper bag for short walks or fussy days at home, and use the Ergo carrier for travelling, days I&#039;m taking public transport, etc. (She&#039;s 16 months old now.) But the stroller and car seat definitely have their place. No need to get dogmatic about it. &lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who says you can&#8217;t breastfeed when your baby is in a car seat? You just sit next to her and lean in, with a light scarf covering the view so passersby don&#8217;t get a peep show. It doesn&#8217;t work as well since my daughter graduated to a forward-facing seat, but was a lifesaver on our extensive travels when she was in her portable rear-facing infant seat. (Yes, a bit uncomfortable for mom, but better than a crying baby!)</p>
<p>I was a sling-only mom for my daughter&#8217;s first two months, which was fine for little walks, but awful for shopping &#8211; I desperately needed some maternity bras, nursing tops, etc &#8211; but it&#8217;s very hard to try things on when your baby is in a sling and there&#8217;s nowhere in the changing room to put her! Eating out and going to the gym was a challenge, too. When we finally got a car seat, it  was fantastic &#8211; baby could nap in her seat on the floor between us, and I could eat my soup without worrying about spilling it on her. </p>
<p>Even better was when we got a stroller that we could pop the car seat in &#8211; now I could drive to a store, try on clothes, and go back without waking her! Finally, I didn&#8217;t have to wear my maternity clothes!</p>
<p>I still keep a simple pouch sling folded up small in my diaper bag for short walks or fussy days at home, and use the Ergo carrier for travelling, days I&#8217;m taking public transport, etc. (She&#8217;s 16 months old now.) But the stroller and car seat definitely have their place. No need to get dogmatic about it. </p>
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		<title>By: silly mommy</title>
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		<dc:creator>silly mommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 19:04:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;i do not understand why mother&#039;s feel the need to carry around their babies in an infant seat.  Its got to be the most stupid burden a mother can put on her self.  I carried my daughter in her infant seat until she was 2 weeks old and then i could no longer use it.  It was heavy and i felt that she was uncomfortable.  she preferred to be in the sling and i liked having my hands free to do things.  I would also put her laying flat in her stroller.  Again there is no need to put your baby in the infant seat and place the infant seat in the stroller.  So much more confortable to be laying flat and most strollers accomodate from birth.  Moms stop making your lives more difficult then they need to be.  &lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i do not understand why mother&#8217;s feel the need to carry around their babies in an infant seat.  Its got to be the most stupid burden a mother can put on her self.  I carried my daughter in her infant seat until she was 2 weeks old and then i could no longer use it.  It was heavy and i felt that she was uncomfortable.  she preferred to be in the sling and i liked having my hands free to do things.  I would also put her laying flat in her stroller.  Again there is no need to put your baby in the infant seat and place the infant seat in the stroller.  So much more confortable to be laying flat and most strollers accomodate from birth.  Moms stop making your lives more difficult then they need to be.  </p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 20:37:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Why not come up with a car seat liner that can detach and become a sling/carrier?  That way you don&#039;t have to lug the car seat OR disturb the baby that much.  &lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why not come up with a car seat liner that can detach and become a sling/carrier?  That way you don&#8217;t have to lug the car seat OR disturb the baby that much.  </p>
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		<title>By: Belen Raymond</title>
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		<dc:creator>Belen Raymond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 May 2008 00:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;She lost me at &quot;If I had a second child...&quot; because parenting with one is completely different than life with several kids.  This is a great invention.  I was searching google for this very thing.  I also inherited a used FP seat with carrying strap and LOVE it.  But I too was looking for a newer design.  This is perfect.  The last time I toted our carseat on my hip?  Last Thursday across a huge soccer field with my 4 month old sound asleep, my other shoulder carrying three bags of camping chairs, while my 2 1/2 year old ran next to me trying hard to catch my 5 year old trying to catch my 6 1/2 year old trying to catch up with my 8 year old soccer daughter.  Yes, that&#039;s 5 healthy and happy children.  And I received at least two compliments on the car seat carrying strap...they are wonderful!!! &lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>She lost me at &#8220;If I had a second child&#8230;&#8221; because parenting with one is completely different than life with several kids.  This is a great invention.  I was searching google for this very thing.  I also inherited a used FP seat with carrying strap and LOVE it.  But I too was looking for a newer design.  This is perfect.  The last time I toted our carseat on my hip?  Last Thursday across a huge soccer field with my 4 month old sound asleep, my other shoulder carrying three bags of camping chairs, while my 2 1/2 year old ran next to me trying hard to catch my 5 year old trying to catch my 6 1/2 year old trying to catch up with my 8 year old soccer daughter.  Yes, that&#8217;s 5 healthy and happy children.  And I received at least two compliments on the car seat carrying strap&#8230;they are wonderful!!! </p>
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		<title>By: FLYING FALCON</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 20:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
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John Sanchez&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, we had some web issues but it is up now. You may purchase them on our web site.<br />
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<p>Thank you for the positive feed back and please spread the word on our product. </p>
<p>Thank you,<br />
John Sanchez</p>
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		<title>By: FLYING FALCON</title>
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		<dc:creator>FLYING FALCON</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 20:51:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Hello, we had some web issues but it is up now. You may purchase them on our web site.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.flyingfalcon.net&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.flyingfalcon.net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Thank you for the positive feed back and please spread the word on our product. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Thank you,&lt;br /&gt;
John Sanchez&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, we had some web issues but it is up now. You may purchase them on our web site.<br />
<a href="http://www.flyingfalcon.net" rel="nofollow">http://www.flyingfalcon.net</a></p>
<p>Thank you for the positive feed back and please spread the word on our product. </p>
<p>Thank you,<br />
John Sanchez</p>
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